The first thing to do when you find yourself attracted to a shy man is to question your feelings for him.
In other words, ask yourself "Am I attracted in spite of or because of his shyness? A very close friend of mine is extremely shy, and I know plenty of other guys that are shy. Shy guys, almost by definition, do not have the balls to initiate and pursue women.
At most, it is a reliable source of advice for women who want to improve their chances with the opposite sex.
A post I made about why women shouldn't take the initiative in relationships evoked some questions about how to deal with shy men - after all, shy men don't chase women, and are unlikely to initiate anything.
So, in order to attract a shy guy and engage him into interesting acts and talking, you need to follow some advices and tips which can best act as helping tools to let you cope with his shyness.
As a shy girl, I can tell you exactly how frustrating it can be to deal with social situations, especially when they involve your crush.
It's even more frustrating when people assume your shyness means that you're not interested or just being mean.
But in the end, it will probably be totally worth it.
That said, here are 10 tips on how to date a shy guy. The first thing you need to know before you do anything is that you can't take his shyness personally.
If a girl doesn't approach or initiate contact with a shy man, nothing will happen.