Well, it’s because they don’t care about black women in the first place, but we already know that. Companionship, friendship, and emotional support during good times and bad are just as important in any relationship. Actually it’s light brown, but thanks for being interested. Choosing to identify all of your self-worth on one body part you had no control over is idiotic.
You’ve Heard This Propaganda Before I’ll briefly go over the reasons people are against black women / white men unions. In the following paragraphs, the “he” I’m referring to is a white man. I decided to write my own answers for their arguments. BW, in my experience, are fiercely loyal and supportive to those they love, so choosing to date a BW is NOT just about sex. Or the group of men harassing her on the street today? African countries are dealing with rape at epidemic proportions. Rape within the black community in America is swept under the rug, but we all know it exists. This myth came from racists attempting to scare WW out of fornicating with blacks due to potential injury.
No running through your phone and wanting to know who such and such is. White girls cater to and love to take care of their men.
There’s no nagging, complaining, and other annoying ass behavior.
This is more than just about the women themselves, but also the society and culture in which they’ve grown up in.
Korean women think that the man is responsible for escalating the date into something more. Now I won’t get into the ‘whys’ or the “it shouldn’t be that way” debates.
It seems that I’ve been successful at convincing “quality good black women” to go find themselves a white man and ignore all the “good black men” a.k.a. As far I’m concerned, a happy black woman is a wonderful thing. Judging by the compliments I’ve received from bw in bed, it’s big ENOUGH. All jokes aside, part of the reason BM are in the position they are in is because they judge too much of their masculinity and pride on something that doesn’t define a man. I’ve met tall, thick, big-hipped women with smaller “canals” so the idea that they can’t be satisfied due to body type is ridiculous. It hurts black men to see black women with white men.
Interesting how people who worry about black women having sex with white men, never concern themselves with her happiness. Being a man is about a lot more than your physical body.
If they find you not wanting to hold their hand, caress their hair, or even kiss them, they will assume that you are not interested, and will move on. For them, being looked at negatively by an adjoshi (which means ‘uncle’ in Korean) who could be her own father with whom she’s probably living with, is painful.
Feel free to use or just read if you’re interested. How can BM use this argument with a straight face with all the fatherless kids running around the BC anyway? I would argue that within the last 100 years, rape of BW is done by BM, not WM. As humorous as that sounds, BM took this racist myth and made it a source of pride. Neither of those reversals of racist ideas has benefited BM or black people in general. Most of us (non-BM) aren’t buying it anymore either.
If anyone has PROVEN (through their actions) and promoted (through their music) that they just want sex, it’s BM. White men raped our great-great-(number of greats may vary) grandmothers. We’ve seen too many examples of BM who aren’t packing and it only gives all the average-sized BM an unnecessary inferiority complex that leads them to try and “prove” their manhood by acting like hyper-sexual, aggressive, violent homophobes or the super black militant crazies who secretly date WW.
More severely, the say that black men are elevating the overall attitude of women because of their aggressive game and high approach frequency.
But they fail to realize that black men are only raising the attitudes of the big women they approach.
In fact, I’ve taken the time to write down what I’ve found to be the biggest mistakes that foreign men make, during years of living in Korea and professionally helping men date Asian women.